Nelson & District Hospice

"I didn't realize I could stay in touch with my hospice volunteer for a year after my husband died. It was so reassuring just knowing she could be there for me from time to time. I would like to do the same for someone else in the future."

Nelson and District Hospice Society provides volunteer training for those who wish to work directly with clients. Completion of this training program along with a criminal record check and other screening procedures are required before volunteers are placed. For information about training or educational opportunities go to the News and Events section for dates and registration procedures in the areas we serve.

Please note that we will not be offering Hospice Volunteer Training in Nelson in 2007. Volunteer training will be offered again on an as needed basis in 2008.

Hospice training programs are available to anyone in the community wishing to increase their knowledge of end-of-life issues.

As well as initial training, the areas of Nelson, Kaslo and the East Shore provide opportunities for ongoing volunteer education as well as support throughout the volunteer/client relationship. The amount of time volunteers are asked to commit depends on client needs but usually does not exceed 4 hours per week. If a client needs additional support, we will place additional volunteers.

PLEASE NOTE:

In lieu of Hospice Volunteer Training in Nelson this year, an 8 week educational series regarding Hospice/Palliative Care in our community is being offered starting Monday Oct. 1. The series is open to anyone in the community wanting to learn more about death and dying in relation to Hospice Palliative Care. If you are interested in participating, please contact Selkirk College in Nelson to register. A nominal fee applies.

HOSPICE PALLIATIVE CARE COMMUNITY EDUCATION

8 weeks, Monday evenings, 7-9 PM (this corrects erroneous information given in the Selkirk Fall Calendar).

1. Oct. 1 Introduction to Hospice/Palliative care... Rivkah Moore
What is hospice/palliative care and the role of hospice in our community?

2. Oct. 15 Advance Directives... Rivkah Moore & Greg Stacey
Understanding your choices, legal rights and representation agreements.

3. Oct. 22 Dementia and Alzheimers... Linda Hoskin
Definining each and how they affect the person who is facing death.

4. Oct. 29 Living With Terminal Cancer... Dave Scanlan

Psycho-social issues and care of the person with cancer.

5. Nov. 5 Dying at Home... Rivkah Moore

How to support the dying person, caregiver support, pain management, and symptom control.

6. Nov. 12 Being With Dying ... Rivkah Moore
A brief overview of the last stages of life, the spirituality of dying and what to do when there's nothing to do.

7. Nov. 19 The Physiology of Dying... Dr. Anna Reid

An exploration of what occurs in the body during the dying process and what you can expect to see and hear in the last days of life.

8. Nov. 26 Grief: The Healing Journey... Michele Greco

Grief and reconciliation, ways to support the bereaved.

Our Volunteers Speak

Hospice Volunteer Training
My father, as a United Church minister, held together the process of grieving and funerals for thousands of people over his 40 active years. During the 15 years I lived at home, funerals (as well as weddings) were part of the Saturday routine. Combined with baptisms they filled out the 'hatched, matched, and dispatched' part of his work. The funerals were difficult for me, especially the two suicides and a murder I attended as a young teenager. I avoided funerals until I was asked to give the eulogy at my grandmother's funeral. I was moved by the heartfelt grief of my father and aunts for the loss of their mother.

It wasn't until Lyn Hazelton was living with cancer for four years that issues of my own mortality began to surface. She, more than anyone I have known, was open about her hopes, her fears, and the daily struggle to embrace life.

When I spent time with her over that last Christmas, she was still working as a consultant to the last of over 250 businesses she had helped start. Almost completely immobilized in her bed in the St. James Cottage Hospice, she managed a steady stream of friends and acquaintances who volunteered to support her and help her complete her work. She held a wonderful party to thank them. That hospice in a park overlooking the Fraser River was a beautifully designed homelike facility. She received a quality of care that exceeded anything I could have provided if she had come home to Crawford Bay as she had planned before her health suddenly deteriorated. When I attended the celebration of her life two months later, the common theme was gratitude for her gift of sharing her experience of living with a terminal illness and the struggles of facing her death. Through her art, her music, and the challenging intensity of her conversations she brought us into her experience and helped us each face the reality of our own inevitable fate.

At that time I resolved to learn more so that I, too, could easy the passing of others and be able to embrace my own final journey. Initially, I signed up to attend the hospice volunteer training a find out what services are available locally. I was surprised to discover that, even without a hospice facility in our community, there appears to be excellent, if not abundant, home support services. The people I met, both participants and trainers, were wonderful. We listened, we shared, we learned and came away with a deeper understanding of the events and issues accompanying the process of dying, death, and, for surviving family and friends, loss, grief, and recovery.

It has inspired me to become a hospice volunteer and, while not called on for that, to work with others in the community to expand the services for care of our community's elders.

Living here, we enjoy a remarkably high quality of life and I, with the help of my hospice friends, want to make the most of it right up until my last sigh.

Written by Robert Agnew

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